In his youtube video [Feminism Destroys Familydated: 8.04.2023], Daniel claims:
If the woman is outside of the home you have to Outsource things like upbringing of children modern model of life children being shipped off to this institution of schooling in general this fundamentally creates problems for the family structure because people are spending most of their time with strangers and when you do that family bonds weaken people tend to have more of a connection and loyalty and love towards people that they spend more of their time with.
Our Response:
Women should have the freedom to choose what works best for them, whether that means being a stay-at-home mom or pursuing a career. If a woman wants or needs to work, it doesn’t inherently harm the child. In fact, research has highlighted several benefits for children raised by working mothers, including positive role modelling and fostering independence. Please see the following scientific study.
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The first few years of a child’s life are critical for emotional, cognitive, and social development. Both parents, especially the mother, should prioritize spending quality time with their baby during this phase. Ideally, workplaces should provide at least 1-2 years of maternity leave, followed by part-time or flexible options for an additional year or two, allowing parents to focus on their child without sacrificing career aspirations.
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After the initial years, the focus on parenting can shift to a more scheduled approach, ensuring that the child continues to receive adequate attention. Mothers shouldn’t feel obligated to stay home permanently, as effective parenting isn’t about always being present physically but about being emotionally and mentally available.
Moreover:
Firstly, men also go to work. Does it break the bond between fathers and children?
Secondly, Muslim men had 4 wives and dozens of slave women for sex purposes, and then dozens of children from them. They saw their children after long periods of time. Did that break the bond between them and their children? If not, how the mother/child bond is going to break if the mother goes to work?
Moreover, many Muslim men from poor countries like India, Pakistan etc. go to rich Gulf countries for work, and stay there for years. They hardly see their children once a year. Does it break the bond between them and their children?
Thirdly, 80% of female doctors in Pakistan don't practise it after getting married.
In Pakistan, a significant number of female doctors discontinue practicing medicine after marriage. According to Dr. Khalid Masood Gondal, Vice Chancellor of King Edward Medical University, approximately 80% of medical graduates are women, but only 20% of them continue to serve as doctors after marriage, while the remaining 60% leave the profession. dawn.com
This trend is attributed to societal expectations and familial responsibilities that prioritize domestic roles for women over professional careers. Many female doctors face pressure from family members or in-laws to focus on household duties, leading them to abandon their medical practice. tribune.com.pk
Fourthly, Islam broke the families of male and female slaves. Islam has the evil of “Slavery by Birth”. And when a baby has 2 teeth (6 to 8 months), then the owner can separate the baby and sell the child or slave mother, or both in the Islam Bazaars of slavery.
Imam Abdullah Ibn Abi Zayd wrote in his Maliki Fiqh Book Risala:
ولا يفرق بين الام وولدها في البيع حتى يثغر
A slave-mother and her baby could not be separated from each other and sold (in the Bazars of slavery) till the baby has his second tooth.
As far as the father (i.e. male slave) is concerned, then he can be sold by the owner whenever he wishes, even before the birth of his baby (i.e. the poor slave father didn't even get the chance to see his baby and vice versa).
Allah/Muhammad also allowed the master to snatch away the wife of his slave, and to start raping her, thus, destroying the whole slave family.
[ (25) Chapter: "Forbidden to you (for marriage) are: your mothers, your daughters..."]:
وَقَالَ أَنَسٌ: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} ذَوَاتُ الأَزْوَاجِ الْحَرَائِرُ حَرَامٌ إِلاَّ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ لاَ يَرَى بَأْسًا أَنْ يَنْزِعَ الرَّجُلُ جَارِيَتَهُ مِنْ عَبْدِهِ.
Anas said: The meaning of the Quranic verse: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} Married free women are forbidden to you except your married slave women that your right hands possess. But there is no problem if a man (i.e. the owner) takes his (married) female slave (for himself) from his male slave.
Grade: Shuaib al'Arnauut classed it sahih and Ibn Hajr as well in his commentary on bukhari.
[Note: This is our own translation, as Sunnah.Com provides only the Arabic text, but didn't translate it into English]
Unbelievable!
PS: slave women in Islam are always working for their masters and cannot stay with their children at home. But it seems Islam don't consider slaves to be human beings.
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Dalam video youtubenya [Feminisme Menghancurkan Keluargatanggal: 8.04.2023], Daniel mengklaim:
If the woman is outside of the home you have to Outsource things like upbringing of children modern model of life children being shipped off to this institution of schooling in general this fundamentally creates problems for the family structure because people are spending most of their time with strangers and when you do that family bonds weaken people tend to have more of a connection and loyalty and love towards people that they spend more of their time with.
Tanggapan Kami:
Perempuan harus memiliki kebebasan untuk memilih apa yang terbaik bagi mereka, apakah itu berarti menjadi ibu rumah tangga atau mengejar karier. Jika seorang perempuan ingin atau perlu bekerja, hal itu tidak membahayakan anaknya. Faktanya, penelitian telah menyoroti beberapa manfaat bagi anak-anak yang dibesarkan oleh ibu yang bekerja, termasuk memberikan teladan positif dan menumbuhkan kemandirian. Silakan simak kajian ilmiah berikut ini.
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Beberapa tahun pertama kehidupan seorang anak sangat penting untuk perkembangan emosional, kognitif, dan sosial. Kedua orang tua, terutama ibu, harus memprioritaskan menghabiskan waktu berkualitas bersama bayinya pada fase ini. Idealnya, tempat kerja harus menyediakan cuti melahirkan setidaknya selama 1-2 tahun, diikuti dengan pilihan paruh waktu atau fleksibel untuk satu atau dua tahun tambahan, sehingga memungkinkan orang tua untuk fokus pada anak mereka tanpa mengorbankan aspirasi karir.
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Setelah tahun-tahun awal, fokus pengasuhan anak dapat beralih ke pendekatan yang lebih terjadwal, sehingga memastikan bahwa anak terus menerima perhatian yang memadai. Para ibu tidak perlu merasa berkewajiban untuk tinggal di rumah selamanya, karena mengasuh anak yang efektif bukan berarti selalu hadir secara fisik, namun selalu siap secara emosional dan mental.
Selain itu:
Pertama, laki-laki juga pergi bekerja. Apakah hal itu memutuskan ikatan antara ayah dan anak?
Kedua, Laki-laki Muslim mempunyai 4 istri dan puluhan budak perempuan untuk tujuan seks, dan kemudian puluhan anak dari mereka. Mereka melihat anak-anak mereka setelah jangka waktu yang lama. Apakah hal itu memutuskan ikatan antara mereka dan anak-anak mereka? Jika tidak, bagaimana ikatan ibu/anak akan putus jika ibu pergi bekerja?
Terlebih lagi, banyak pria Muslim dari negara-negara miskin seperti India, Pakistan dll pergi ke negara-negara Teluk yang kaya untuk bekerja, dan tinggal di sana selama bertahun-tahun. Mereka jarang bertemu anak-anak mereka setahun sekali. Apakah hal itu memutuskan ikatan antara mereka dan anak-anak mereka?
Ketiga, 80% dokter wanita di Pakistan tidak mempraktikkannya setelah menikah.
In Pakistan, a significant number of female doctors discontinue practicing medicine after marriage. Menurut Dr. Khalid Masood Gondal, Wakil Rektor King Edward Medical University, sekitar 80% lulusan kedokteran adalah perempuan, namun hanya 20% dari mereka yang tetap menjadi dokter setelah menikah, sedangkan 60% sisanya meninggalkan profesinya. dawn.com
Tren ini disebabkan oleh ekspektasi masyarakat dan tanggung jawab keluarga yang memprioritaskan peran domestik bagi perempuan dibandingkan karir profesional. Banyak dokter perempuan menghadapi tekanan dari anggota keluarga atau mertuanya untuk fokus pada tugas rumah tangga, sehingga menyebabkan mereka meninggalkan praktik medisnya. tribune.com.pk
Keempat, Islam memisahkan keluarga budak laki-laki dan perempuan. Islam memiliki kejahatan “Perbudakan karena Kelahiran”. Dan apabila bayi mempunyai 2 gigi (6 sampai 8 bulan), maka pemiliknya dapat memisahkan bayi tersebut dan menjual anak tersebut atau ibu budaknya, atau keduanya di Bazar perbudakan Islam.
Imam Abdullah Ibnu Abi Zayd menulis dalam Kitab Fiqih Maliki Risala:
ولا يفرق بين الام وولدها في البيع حتى يثغر
Seorang ibu budak dan bayinya tidak dapat dipisahkan satu sama lain dan dijual (di Bazar perbudakan) sampai bayi tersebut memiliki gigi kedua.
Bagi sang ayah (yaitu budak laki-laki), maka ia dapat dijual oleh pemiliknya kapan pun ia mau, bahkan sebelum bayinya lahir (yaitu ayah budak yang malang itu bahkan tidak sempat melihat bayinya dan sebaliknya).
Allah/Muhammad also allowed the master to snatch away the wife of his slave, and to start raping her, thus, destroying the whole slave family.
[ (25) Bab: "Dilarang bagimu (untuk menikah) adalah: ibumu, anak-anak perempuanmu..."]:
وَقَالَ أَنَسٌ: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} ذَوَاتُ الأَزْوَاجِ الْحَرَائِرُ حَرَامٌ إِلاَّ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ لاَ يَرَى بَأْسًا أَنْ يَنْزِعَ الرَّجُلُ جَارِيَتَهُ مِنْ عَبْدِهِ.
Anas berkata: Arti ayat Alquran: {وَالْمُحْصَنَاتُ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ} Diharamkan bagimu wanita-wanita merdeka yang sudah menikah, kecuali wanita budakmu yang sudah menikah yang dimiliki oleh tangan kananmu. Tetapi tidak masalah jika seorang laki-laki (yaitu pemilik) mengambil budak perempuan (yang sudah menikah) (untuk dirinya sendiri) dari budak laki-lakinya.
Nilai: Shuaib al'Arnauut mengklasifikasikannya sahih dan Ibnu Hajr juga dalam komentarnya tentang bukhari.
[Catatan: Ini adalah terjemahan kami sendiri, karena Sunnah.Com hanya menyediakan teks Arab, tetapi tidak menerjemahkannya ke dalam bahasa Inggris]
Luar biasa!
PS: slave women in Islam are always working for their masters and cannot stay with their children at home. Namun nampaknya Islam tidak menganggap budak sebagai manusia.
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